Did you know that every day you are asked unspoken ludicrous questions. Did you also know that these same ludicrous questions (Ludi-Q's) alter the course of your life without your permission?
What if you could learn how to spot these Ludi-Q's as they
happen, forging your own path without compromise?
We sometimes say "Yes" to ludicrous questions like, "May I control you?" because the question isn't asked out loud. It is asked with behaviors, gestures, insinuations, and The Big Two - guilt and shame.
Sometimes we say "Yes" because we are afraid to resist or we talk ourselves out of believing the person would actually be asking such a ludicrous thing.
Ludicrous unspoken questions mess things up for us. They blow up relationships, screw up jobs, and ruin health.
With practice - ludicrous questions can be spotted instantaneously, just like learning a new language.
Saying yes to unspoken ludicrous questions enters us into an unspoken contract, a hidden agreement.
Ludi-Q's online literacy course and mobile app build skills through interactive scenario based training.
A program developed to certify therapists, mentors, and coaches to teach your clients to be ludi-literate.
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I love Ludi Q’s! As a therapist and transformation coach I am always looking for succinct and illuminating ways to break through the resistance of my clients on tough issues. I started using Jan Black’s genius Ludi Q’s in my practice and the response was AMAZING!
Ludi-Q's are not only brilliant, they change the way you think. Once you learn to recognize them, they infuse your every conversation. Your relationships become healthier and more authentic.
I love Jan Black's Ludi-Qs and felt their power and the potential they have to support conscious relationships from the moment I saw them. As a life coach and therapist-in-training, I have found the Ludi-Qs to be a great tool for raising emotional literacy. I see them as being incredibly useful in a range of contexts and am excited for the possibilities they open up between people.
Ludi-Q’s are the fastest, most efficient, and most undeniable method for revealing the truth about interpersonal situations that are crazy-making. Once the truth of an interaction is revealed to you through a LudiQ, you won’t stumble into the same frustrating situation again. LudiQ’s provide instant clarity, and once you’ve seen the truth, you can’t un-see it, but you can make healthier choices.